Showing posts with label Grace Lee. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grace Lee. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

She Made Dreams Come True



I had a dream.  A dream that I could be a writer, a dream that I could find and fuel a writer's guild here in our small corner of southeast Georgia.

She made my dreams come true.

Inspired by the support of my friend, Okefenokee Heritage Center Director Steve Bean, I started the Okefenokee Heritage Center Writer's Guild.  We started with more people than I anticipated.  Still, it was nervy that year to begin the Okefenokee Heritage Center's Writing Contest.

You never know what might be inspired by a writing contest.  Steve told me of a woman at Baptist Village who had wanted to submit a poem but was concerned about the format she had to submit it in.  He helped her type it up and got it ready for submission.

That poem, My Life in Rhymes, won in the poetry division.  She came out to our awards banquet, and this wonderful, charming, 85-year-old woman received her prize.

I fund that she had inspired to write in recent years, and was building up a coterie of poems, short stories, and reminisces.  They were all wonderful, folksy and heartwarming, revealing how different daily life may have been, but the one great universal truth was family, friends, and love.


She expressed an interest in attending her our monthly meetings but had no transportation from Baptist Village. I could solve that.  For the next five years, I brought her each month to the Heritage Center.

Grace Lee meant so much to me.  Her writings were an inspiration.  She had a wonderful spirit and a beautiful connection to people and events.  Her writing style often reminded me of Mark Twain.  There was a truth and decency that permeated her works.

She inspired me, starting to write at 85.  I had often felt like it was too late for me, that I let that ship sail by.  No, I have not had the success that I wanted.  But I do love to write and to share it with whoever is willing to read it.  She helped me understand that it was never too late to pursue your dreams.

Like many in my age range, my own parents had passed, my mother in 2008, and my father in 2013.  I miss them every day.  But Grace helped with that.  My father was like Grace, raised on a farm, and an educator, a sweet-natured man that was kind to all. He also wrote about his family and growing up - I have a half dozen binders filled with his stories and genealogical research, going back 13 generations.  Spending time with Grace was like getting extra time with my father and the world he came from.  Both lived to be 91, Grace passing December 2nd.  Both struggled with mobility issues in their final years. Both remained loving and kind, filled with stories and humor.

Time with Grace was a very special time for me.  Picking her up, and talking with her in the car, and at meetings, was always filled with lively and intelligent talk.  Her memory of events and people was stronger than mine.  I enjoyed spending time visiting her at Baptist Village, something that I did not so often enough. I am ashamed that I saw her very little in the last few months.  We get so busy sometimes, we forget the truly important things in life.

She helped make my dream of a Writer's Guild come true.  She inspired my dreams of being a writer.  She connected me to dreams of my parents.

Those dreams, and my memory of her and how she touched my life, will live on.  I will continue to share her stories. 

She is with Jesus now, with her loving husband and other family members that have passed.  She is with my mother and father, looking down with love and caring, inspiring us, keeping our dreams alive.

I love you, Grace Lee, for inspiring my dreams, for being my friend, for your unconditional love and support.  I will always cherish you.















Sunday, January 6, 2019

Hats We've Worn by Grace Lee



Extra-special guest blog written by Grace K. Lee!



Hats We've Worn
by Grace K. Lee

This year I had my ninetieth birthday.  My family and I have worn a great many hats in my lifetime.  I still have and will keep my first two, for they are priceless, and will keep me forever warm.  They are FAMILY and JESUS.  That includes PARENTS, BROTHER, & SISTER.  Next came FRIENDS, then STUDENT.

I was just beginning to get my TEACHER hat adjusted, when a LOVE hat fell on me.  From the first moment on, it has always been a perfect fit.  I kept my TEACHER hat, but it was not long before I'd added one for a BICKLEY FARMER'S WIFE.

Somehow I came away from my first visit to the Bickley United Methodist Church with another TEACHER hat.  The Kindergarten teacher was retiring, and wanted me to take it.  I wore it gladly and proudly for around 40 years.

Now the WIFE hat was a big one,  Some people were surprised that it would fit.  It had a lot of other hats tied to it like the tails of a kite. It took all of them to keep the big hat moving.  The COOK hat, HOUSEKEEPER and HOMEMAKER hats, also some for driving TRACTORS, TRUCKs, and PULLING TRAILERS (for hay, tobacco, fishing and later for camping).  Oh!  I almost forgot to mention my 'GO-FER' hat.  Every day on a farm - there's always something that someone has to GO FOR!  I loved it all!

After 14 years, I had received 4 beautiful MOTHER hats.  I was, and still am, so very proud of them.  I discovered that they were also very large and each one had its own set of little hats hooked to it.  My PTA hat had got worn to shreds.  There were hats for encouraging HOMEWORK, 4-H, POSTERS, FAIR EXHIBITS & SHOWING FARM ANIMALS.  Also CHURCH and SCHOOL ACTIVITIES (band, annual staff, etc)  Then for seeing that each one was where they should be for everything - there was a CHAUFFERS cap.

We had some great hats for PARTIES, BIRTHDAYS, GRADUATIONS, & VACATIONS.  The years passed by too fast.  I must say that since we were a FARM FAMILY, everyone wore their WORK rats regularly,  There were also plenty of FUN hats - for instance, SCHOOL QUEEN, SADDLE CLUB, PARADES & SADDLE QUEEN.  It wasn't long before the COLLEGES & WEDDING hats were things of the past.

For my husband and me, there were CHURCH and SQUARE DANCING hats and meeting new FRIENDS.  The FARMWORK slowed, so I filled my time with things I had kinda neglected. I still had my COMMUNITY POLL MANAGER hat, and one as a member of the local HOME DEMONSTRATION CLUB.

I had a hard time with my WIDOW hat.  My family and friends helped to adjust it to fit.  I worked on my Family Geneology, and got me a hat for WAYCROSS FUN TIME BAND.  I really enjoyed being with them,  But some of the best-fitting hats I've ever owned are my GRANDMOTHER hats!

As a result of a freak home accident, I turned in my DRIVER's hat. I now live at Baptist Village.  I have a WRITER's cap which I'm very proud of and I write things about my past.  I suppose the only other hat that is of any use now is my TAG-A-LONG hat.  I thank God that I'm still able to use it.  I have switched my hats back and forth so often during my life that none have had a chance to take root.  The exception being my first two, FAMILY AND JESUS, which have grown exceedingly larger.  God has blessed me and my entire family all of our lives. ---- Thank you, Jesus.  A-Men.