Thursday, December 21, 2017

Christmas in the Way Back Machine


I love Christmas.

It's not so much the commercial aspect.  And yes, the religious part is important, but there were other parts as well.

And that was just being a part of being a loving family.

My mother was big on making Christmas a very special occasion.  We had lots and lots of presents.  Many of them were not very expensive.  She would wrap up socks, or put small things in big boxes.  She just liked us opening a lot of stuff.

There would be one or two presents that would be more substantial.  Carol's kitchen set.  My James Bond attache case.  One year I got a bicycle, and it was the only year where we had no snow on the ground and I could actually ride it!

Carol and I would wake up very early, and anxiously await for Mom and Dad to wake up.  Then we would open stockings which might take as long as an hour, as the overstuffed stocking would be opened one little present at a time, each person getting a turn in the rotation.  Fruit, gum, candy, coins, combs, pencils - every little item would be gushed over.

We would then have breakfast.  I'm not saying that was overwhelming - it might be scrambled eggs, oatmeal, or it might just be cereal and toast. I really didn't know how special breakfast could be until I moved South and discovered sausage 'n' cheese biscuits.

After breakfast, we would open a gift at a time, with either Carol or myself acting as "Santa", distributing each round of gifts.  Occasionally my mother would intervene and say, "Don't open that one yet - save it for later", wanting to build up to the "major" present.  We never stopped to ask how she knew which present Santa had set up as the "major" one.

This whole process could take to noon.




I don't remember much about the hundreds of presents we received over the years. 

What I remember was bonding with my family, and the sense of joy, celebration and love we experienced.

With my parents gone, and my sister in Michigan, I cherish the memory of these Christmases past, and carry on as many of the traditions as I can with my own nuclear family.

Merry Christmas to one and all!




Tuesday, December 19, 2017

The Invasion of the Episcopalian Carolers!


It's early!
By Episcopalian standards.
Nevertheless, last Sunday, we gathered together in the Parish Hall to prepare for our Annual Caroling journey.

We wear hats, seasonal clothing, and have bells that we can ring.  Dayton Lang provides the guitar, and this year, for Jingle Bells, Benjamin provided the kazoo.

Rather than going door to door in one neighborhood, we carpool and visit many of our parishioners who are unable to attend regular services.

This includes some private residences and some nursing homes.


One of my favorites is the assisted living residence in Baptist Village.  We visit our long-time parishioner, Jo Stafford, the lovely lady in the pink sweater.  There are many others there as well, and in this picture,  we see Edwin Herrin greeting one of them.

It is also the residence of my friend and superstar writer, Grace Lee.  Grace started writing in her mid-eighties, and will be celebrating her 90th birthday very soon.  She really comes out and enjoys our singing, and sings right along with us.






Our last stop is always with a very special member of the Grace Church family, Kathy Kontos.  Kathy had been a member of the choir for decades, and really enjoys us coming out to see her and her sister, Anastasia.  She was thrilled to hear that Benjamin had joined the choir, and had made his first appearance as a choir member that Sunday morning.

Thank you, my fellow Grace Episcopal parishioners, for a wonderful annual tradition, that for me, launches the true Christmas season.  It has been a joy for Alison, Benjamin, and myself, to participate.







Saturday, December 16, 2017

Our Great Political Cycle: Saturday Political Soap Box 174



And so we do it again.

We repeat the cycle of our American politics, one that has been a constant, at least since Nixon,  Republicans mess up, Democrats clean up.

Republicans complain about deficits and overspending, then come in and cut taxes, mostly to the upper echelon, and then don't cut enough spending to prevent ballooning deficits, which suddenly they decide they don't care about anymore. When the Democrats regain control, they have to be the grown ups and raise taxes, and do whatever grown up things are necessary in order to reduce the deficit.

Not only does this make the Democrats look terrible in having to be the bad parents raising taxes, it also constrains the Democrats in establishing new programs in order to help people, in order to address the mounting concerns in our society (infrastructure, health care, education, climate change, wage inequality, etc.).  It's a win-win for the Republicans.  For the American people?  Not so much.

The Republicans are currently on the verge of creating a huge tax reduction windfall for the wealthy and large corporations.  It doesn't even have the pretense of making a small feint of  benefiting the poor and middle class as Bush, Jr.'s plan did.  One of the smartest things Bush, Jr. did was hand everybody a check as a retro result of their tax plan.  Was it a cheap stunt that had no long lasting effect?  You bet!  But in the short term, it got more people on board with a plan that primarily benefited the rich.  The current crop doesn't even the common sense to pretend.

That's one of the most bizarre things about our con-man President.  You would think he would have enough carny brains to do something more than to just blatantly lie about what the plan does.  But he's not showing anything that would make people believe what he says.  Polls indicate that many are finally starting to wake up, with poll support fro the President now in the low 30's. 

Republicans try desperately, but never actually get to, what they call entitlement reform.  But that's not what it is.  They would love to kill Medicaid altogether, and turn Medicare and Social Security over to private Wall Street vultures, who, trust me, will not have your best interests at heart.  Seniors will have to pay ever-increasing amounts for health insurance (if they can get it at all), and your retirement will be at the mercy of the market (not to mention the increasing amount of fees you will have to pay), and instead of being a social insurance program, it becomes a free-for-all crap shoot.  But they never get to the point of doing it - even their own base rebels at this.

The current plan will create a predicted deficit of a trillion and a half dollars.  Even under the rosiest economic projections, it still is a trillion or more.  The Republicans aren't worried about that.  It will either give them an excuse to cut more spending, or blame the deficit on the Democrats, constraining the Democrats from enacting new programs, or blaming them for cutting popular programs because they have no fiscal choice.

Deficit and debt mean different things.  The deficit is the annual shortfall between spending and collected revenue.  Debt is the accumulated shortfall between the same.  You can have a surplus in a given year, and it may not make a significant dent in the debt.  That is why Republicans could still natter at President Obama, because even as he cut the yearly deficits at an historic pace, the overall debt still increased.

The American people may be finally starting to wake up.  The current tax reform bill is the most unpopular tax cut package in American history.  It's even more unpopular than the President, and that's saying a lot!

I think the political tides will turn before the Republicans can successfully gut Social Security and Medicare.  But that still will leave a huge deficit problem.  Will the American people understand where that came from?

You know what?  Call me a cock-eyed optimist, but this time. I think that they will.

Republicans, the jig may be up.

We can only hope.








Friday, December 15, 2017

Christmas Spirit is Alive and Well!

You can find the true spirit of Christmas , if you look.  It may not be easy to see, or readily apparent, particularly if you're focused on the wrong places.

It's not in the bombastic commercial hubbub that surrounds the holiday, all the noise that tries to get you involved and stressed about the holiday from August on.  That is a long time!  No wonder so many are anxious to set aside the holiday the day after it arrives!  It's not in the urge to buy more and more gifts, to obsess over checking off a long list of obligations and responsibilities, trying to hit the right zone with presents - getting something that will make the gift recipient wowed while at the same time not breaking the budget too bad.

It's not in the ferocious competition to put out bigger, shiner, more impressive outdoor displays.  They can be nice to look at, especially in the snowless Deep South where I live.  Still, the size of your display may win  neighborhood competitions, it may get the most cars to slow down in front of your house, but it doesn't really represent what the true spirit of Christmas is. 

And it's certainly not in the savage reaction to whether or not people give the correct Christmas greeting.  Symbols of Christmas are nice, but they are only symbols of  Christmas.  It is not Christmas Spirit itself. 

Christmas Spirit can be seen in the hands and feet and heart we extend to each other.  It's in the food we bring to those in need.  It's in the shelter we provide, and the love that we share.  It's in providing clothes to those who have little to wear.  It's in visiting prisoners.  It's in a warm hug and a bright smile, to all, regardless of whatever their faith or seasonal greeting.

It's in those who foster pets, and help shelter animals from the cold, those who promote spaying and neutering, those who adopt and responsibly take care of their new pets.

It's in those who support the shelters for abused women and their children.  Giving through time, money and resources to make sure those who live in fear can have a ray of hope.

It's in those that advocate for the poor and needy, whether it's in supposing organizations that assist the impoverished, or in promoting legislation that provides more permanent fixes.

It's in those that help build shelters and homes for those who have no place else to go, fellow citizens that would otherwise be homeless.

It's about providing love and hope and resources to the sick.  Whether it be a child sick with a debilitating and deadly disease, or an elderly person living out their last days in Hospice, they could all use the support and kindness of caring people.

It's about caroling and extending love and joy.  It's about celebrating with your own family, and with church family.  It;s about extending that love and kindness to all, regardless of their faith, or their ethnicity, or even their immigration status.  Christmas is either open arms to everyone, or it doesn't really exist at all.

It's about the message and light of Christ.  Christians are theologically diverse, and fractured into hundreds of denominations, but they share this belief - Christ came to light the way for the rest of us.

Sometimes that light is hard to see in the midst of all the Christmas commercial noise, in the din of bad news that sometimes engulfs us, in the partisan divides we have created for each other.  But take a moment.  Relax.  Unplug from the noise.  Pray in contemplation and quiet.  Think about all the wonderful things we do, and can do, in the Christmas Spirit.

Take a moment.  Open your heart.  The light of Christ, the great breath of the Christmas Spirit, the love of God - it's there.  It's easy to see - nay, it's overwhelmingly clear - when you just look in the right place.

Merry Christmas to you all!







Wednesday, December 13, 2017

A Beautiful Post-Election Morning



All of Alabama's past history indicated that the Republican would win.

Any sense of human decency sided with the Democrat winning.

Doug Jones wins!

Yes, by all that is good and holy, it should have been by a wider margin.  Whites, particularly men, voted for Moore in uncomfortably large numbers.  Nevertheless, this is Alabama, one of the most Republican states in the county.

All of the sexual predators and offenders have fallen, one by one, some very deserving, some more marginally so.  One survives -  our sexual predator-in-chief.  Godspeed, Robert Mueller!  Godspeed!

As far as Democrats go, Doug Jones is fairly moderate to conservative.  There are some things, like gun control, where we may not be able to count on his vote.  There are other vital places where we can.  He used his victory speech to call for the renewal of the CHIP program. 

He is coming to Washington hoping to bring kindness, decency, and compromise, open to working with the other party.  You know - like Barack Obama did.  I'm pessimistic, but I do wish him the best.

Roy Moore, of course, was ungracious and stubborn in defeat.  He wants a recount, but it looks like the vote will be outside the margin of error.  He'll have to pay for it himself if he wants it.  He should crawl back into the cesspool of history.

There are many tough struggles ahead, as we try to draw a close to the Trump Ascendancy.  Maybe people are finally waking up.

Heaps of praises to the African-American voters in Alabama, who voted 90 to 95% for Jones, and, despite all the attempts of voter suppression, showed up in record numbers to cast their ballots.  Mississippi and South Carolina, which have even larger percentages of black residents - are you paying attention?  Progressives of all stripes need to join together to change the face of the South!

And, do you hear that, Georgia Republicans, who keep choosing corporate interests and Trump-style hate politics?  The people will come for you too!

Let's start here in the first Congressional District by defeating Trump puppet Buddy Carter, with No One Gets Left Behind's Lisa Ring!

Victory is thrilling indeed!











Monday, December 11, 2017

Reading Railroad: All Aboard The Polar Express!


I found a new love Saturday, or perhaps it was just rekindling an old one.

The Okefenokee Heritage Society held an event Saturday afternoon, centered on the reading of The Polar Express.  There was also hot cocoa, ornament making, and silver bells.  The Depot was decorated for Christmas, including a Christmas Tree, a decorated mantel with operating fireplace, a toy train set, and, of course, the Heritage Center's real train, with a bell that rings.

I felt privileged to be the conductor of The Polar Express, and read the story to the children that attended the event.  Not to sound conceited, but I knew that I was a good reader.  What I didn't know was that I would manage to have such a positive rapport with the children.  I thought, being relatively shy, that I would stick to the story and not interact with them much.  I was wrong.  I enjoyed engaging them and bringing them into the story.



I owe a great deal to my storytelling teammate, Julianna Lacefield.  She got the children organized and engaged, ready to hear my story. She has a background in children's education, and was a tremendous help in getting them started and helping me hold their attention.

Julianna is a gifted storyteller in her own right, and I hope there will be more occasions where she and I can help bring great storytelling to children.

There were many that helped this event a success. Barbara Griffin stationed the delicious hot cocoa, where there was also candy canes and cookies.  Lamar Deal helped put together the silver bell set, and brought the toy train, and other antiques that helped set the right mood.  Elizabeth Welch, the OHC Director, was the brains and organizational spirit behind the whole event.  Bravo.



Two of my favorite people were at the event, Kimberly and Emily Beck.  Kimberly has been a friend for more than a decade now, and watching her daughter, Emily, grow up to be such a fine person and top-rate actress, has been a great treasure. They attend many of the events that I and/or Benjamin are in, and it means a lot to me.



This is a picture from a few months ago, where Emily was singing a song a song from The Addams Family musical.  She is playing the part of Wednesday Addams, fitting the part to a tee.

She tried out last week for the part of Wednesday Addams for the upcoming musical to be put on by the Waycross Area Community Theatre.  If they do cast her, WACT couldn't make a finer choice.


Retirement, for me, is about finally getting to spend more time doing the things that I love.  And I have rediscovered that one of things that I love to do most is to read to children.  I know it won't make any money (and I do need to make up a slight shortfall in the money I need to bring in - retirement income covers most but not all of what I need to make), but I love to do it, and I hope I can do more of it.

So, for those reading this who would like to utilize my reading talents, and Julianna's as well, please get in contact with me!  I stand ready to entertain and educate!






Saturday, December 9, 2017

On Losing Franken: Saturday Political Soap Box 173



This is a tough one.  This is one that many of my friends, of all political stripes, may not agree with.  I've tried hard to look at this as neutrally as I can.  It's very difficult.

I believe in Al Franken.  He  has been a hard-working and diligent Senator, one who reflects many views close to my own.  Most of his books hold a special place in my bookshelf, and have been significant influences on me, and have helped shored me up over the years while living in a place that is very hostile to my point of view.

I also support, and believe in the efforts of the #MeToo movement.  I was happy to see it win the Time Person of the Year, as the The Silence Breakers.  There are concerns and abuse all along American culture, not just that involving celebrities and politics.  They exist in our work places, our churches, and our homes.  The process of reform and raising cultural awareness is just beginning.

Al Franken, over the years, has, on what I believe are rare occasions, indulged in boorish and immature behavior.  This may have to do with his comedic roots.  Sometimes he thinks he's funny, and others may not interpret it that way.  His original accuser, the conservative radio announcer and friend of Roger Stone, Leann Tweeden, someone who frequently indulged in outlandish male butt-grabbing behavior herself, seemed somewhat staged, coached and trite.  Nevertheless, Franken behaved in such a way as to leave himself open to negative interpretations. Most of the groping accusations also seem to be related to stupid attempts to be funny, or actions that may or may not be accidental or misinterpreted.

I know.  Many of you think I am making excuses.  Maybe, but I don't think so.  His behavior deserves investigation by the Senate Ethics Committee.  He may deserve admonishment and/or censure.  He himself has been more apologetic and open than any of the other men who have been accused of sexual misconduct.  It's not worthy of resignation, or excommunication from American life.  It just isn't.

I understand the strategic reasoning behind the pressure to force him to resign.  That, and the Conyers resignation (much more deserved and warranted), helps place the Democrats in the moral high ground, and place them far above the Republicans, who have serious unaddressed problems in this area.

The great problem with the strategy is that it won't work.  Republicans just chortle that the Democrats have shot themselves in the foot, and marvel at how easy they are to take down.  And even though the Democratic Governor will replace Franken with another Democratic, that does mean there will have to be a special election in 2018, and there is no guarantee that seat will stay in Democratic hands.

There are levels of levels of bad behavior in sexual misconduct, and not all of them should be treated equally.

Level One is boorish, sophomoric behavior that the perpetrator thinks is amusing, but is not fully aware that it could be misinterpreted.  It has no power component, no exercise of threat or force.  It's goofy gone wild.  That is the level that Al Franken is at.

Level Two is acting like your position, power and celebrity in life entitles you to act in a manner the rest of us can't.  They dwell under the belief that all women crave men with money and power, and since you got it, you van get away with more than most can.  Donald Trump has explicitly confessed to this.  It is more serious than Level One.  Some behaviors  are obnoxious, others are more vile, threatening and insidious. 

Level Three is when men deliberately use their power to intimidate and threaten women, endangering their position in the organization the powerful men have control over.  I think John Conyers slips into this category, as does Harvey Weinstein and Bill O'Reilly.  These men have committed foul acts, and rightfully should lose their position and power.

Level Four is completely and utterly beyond redemption. That is when men prey on and take advantage of children.  Roy Moore clearly and irredeemably falls into this category.  Is it proven in a court of law?  No, but so what?  You have to disbelieve some nine women, tons of corroborating source evidence, even mall security who thought the way he hung out there was creepy.  No, Roy Moore has no business in any elected office, much less in the United States Senate.

But sections of our country have gone mad. There are actually people in Alabama that think a Democrat is worse than an alleged pedophile.  They are ready to choose a child molester over a prosecutor who convicted the KKK murders of four children.  And there is a strong likelihood that there are enough of those people to give Roy Moore the victory.

So, will Al Franken's resignation change minds in Alabama, convince them that the Democrats have the moral high ground?  Hell, no.  They don't care.  If they think of it all, they're saying, "Good!  Got rid of another Democrat!"  They're considering voting for a Level Four offender!  You think they care what the Democrats did with someone who, at worst, is a Level One offender?

I think not.

Things won't truly change until Republicans have to pay a price at the polls for their misconduct.  So far, that's not been the case.   Alabama could change all that, by voting for Jones over Moore.

I pray that they do.















Thursday, December 7, 2017

Conference Championships Should Be the Entry Ticket



Alabama should not be in the college playoffs.

This is not a personal judgment against Alabama.  They just didn't win the SEC championship.  The privilege of the playoffs should be reserved for those colleges that win their conference championships.  It's a much, simpler and direct system than pure poll judgments.

This would work best in an eight-team playoff system, with six major conferences sending their champions, and two wild cards selected by a BCS point-style system.

I don't care who wins the championship or what their overall won/loss record is.  Win a championship - you go.  Let's say there's a year where Alabama wins the SEC West with a 12 - 0 record, and Florida wins the SEC East with an 8 - 4 record.  In the championship, Florida wins the game against Alabama.  Then Florida qualifies for the playoffs, and Alabama doesn't (unless as a wild card).  Too bad for Alabama, so sad.  Conference championships should mean something.  Thy should be more important than won/loss records and poll standings.

Unfortunately, we don't have an eight-team playoff (not yet).  We only have four slots - which it makes it even more imperative that one conference doesn't bogart multiple slots.

Here, showing major conference champions, is how it should have worked -


Conference                                      Team                               Poll Ranking

PAC 12                                             USC                                         8

SEC                                                   Georgia                                   3

AAC                                                  UCF                                      12

Big 12                                                Oklahoma                              2

Mountain West                                   Boise State                          25

ACC                                                    Clemson                               1

Big Ten                                                Ohio State                            5

Independent                                         Notre Dame                       14


So, the number one seed should be the highest ranked conference champion - #1 Clemson.

The number two seed should be the second highest ranked conference champion - #2 Oklahoma.

The number three seed should be the third highest ranked conference champion - #3 Georgia.

The number four seed should be the fourth highest ranked conference champion - #5 Ohio State.

Independents might be factored in, but I really think they should be more considered for a wild card slot in an eight-team playoff.

Who's the number four poll ranked team?  Doesn't matter.  They didn't win their conference.

OK, it's Alabama.  Just for the record.  But they didn't win their conference.  Too bad, so sad.

As a devout University of Michigan fan, you know how much I despise Ohio State.  But they won the Big Ten Championship.  Reluctantly, I believe they should be in the playoffs, and not Alabama.  Someday, that might be Michigan sidelined by a conference non-champion.

It's not personal against Alabama.  It's just how the conference championships worked this year.

Now, if Alabama votes in Roy Moore as United States Senator, that's personal.  And I will hold it against that state.

Big Time.
















Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Tryouts Tuesday Tidbits



I have not had the good fortune yet to see this play, but I plan to this weekend.  I've heard many good things about it, and I know it stars the incredibly gifted young talent, Marin Jeffords.  Please come out and kickstart your Christmas season with this great show!

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For awhile in this area, I was Mr. Christmas, playing, in relatively quick succession, Scrooge in A Christmas Carol, Santa Claus in Miracle on 34th Street, and George Bailey in It's A Wonderful Life.  I love Christmas plays for the messages they bring, and because they usually have all age casts, and whole families participate in them. 

Coming off of two recent productions, The Odd Couple and The Model Apartment, I decided to take a short break.  So I reluctantly skipped this year's Christmas production.

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But that break is over now.  Benjamin wants to be in the WACT musical, so we both tryed out last night.  The musical is The Addams Family, which seems to be the "musical du jour" this season (a local high school is also doing the musical). We both felt good about our tryout, but we'll see.  I love acting with Benjamin, and I hope he gets a chance to sing onstage.

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One of the area's finest young actresses also tryed out, Emily Beck,  She is a dead ringer for Wednesday Addams, an exceptional actress and a great singer.  She can also dance!

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The devolution of our politics continues at a frightening rate.  The recent results in Virginia and other places gave me hope that we had reversed the tide.  But the Alabama Senate election has me gloomy again.  Really, white evangelicals?  You're thinking of voting for am alleged pedophile (and I must add, multiple accusations that are well sourced) over a prosecutor who helped convict KKK members that killed four young girls?  How is this not a no-brainer?  What is there to think about? 

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Speaking of Alabama, no, they should not be in the college playoffs.  That should be reserved for conference champions.  If college championships don't mean anything, why bother playing them?  I have a system for this, which I hope to flesh out in an upcoming blog story.  Stay tuned, because once the idea is out there, I'm sure it will sweep the nation.

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Speaking of football, I didn't see it, but I understand there was a horrifying injury in last night's pro game.  I keep thinking it may be time to give up on football as a spectator sport, and Alison and I have been watching less, but no, I haven't given it up all together. 

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Sometimes Grammarly kicks in on my computer,  Sometimes it does not.  Today, for this blog, it is taking a leave of absence.  If they really want to buy their premium service, they're going to have to convince it can consistently appear wherever I write, including Microsoft Word, my primary writing program.


Ta-Ta for now,

T. M. Strait














Friday, December 1, 2017

NaNoWriMo No Mo

I failed.

Big time.

Ultimately, I couldn't even hit 10,000 words.

I thought I would have more time in November.  I thought I had a real shot.

NaNoWriMo is an international writing contest challenging you to write 50,000 words on a novel in one month, the month of November.

I had a great idea, The Extra Credit Club, that had been burning in me for many years.  On paper, I had more time available to do it.

First, however, I had to finish up The Model Apartment, a play I was in.  That took the first few days of the month.

Second, I wanted to front-load my work time, so I could have more time in the back of the month.

Third, with my family home with their Thanksgiving break, I found myself choosing between time with family and time to churn out another 41,000 words.  I chose family.

I know about the theory that you can write whatever and then go back to fix it.  I write relatively fast, but I don't quite write that way, either.  Sure, I often have to go back and edit, tighten and make it more consistent, but I'm not a big wholesale editor.  I usually have a strong idea of my characters and plot, and like to make the first draft pretty close to the final draft.  Everybody writes differently.  That's just the way I do it. 

I probably could have gotten to 20,000 words if I kept doing it a little each day, but once I realized I couldn't make it, and that very few people would see the finished work, I found it harder to motivate myself.

I do want to get back to The Extra Credit Club.  But I  owe it to my readers to return to The History of the Trap series first.  I also have a completed book I'm just sitting on - Crowley Stories: Swamp's Edge.  I'm Hamletting that, as I can't decide whether to find a real publisher or agent, or just publish it myself. 

Semi-retirement has not brought the extra writing time I had hoped for.  Much of it is my fault.  I have let other projects and concerns get in the way. I have not had the consistency of schedule yet that makes me know - this, this is my writing time each day.  I vary what times I go to work at accounting each day, and for the longest time, I had a script I had to learn for a play I was in.

I have to do what I can to restore a consistent AND longer writing time.  Fiction takes more time and effort than blog entries and non-fiction writing.  And fiction is my first love, and what I want to return to.

Thanks for all who support my writing efforts, be they blog, or newspaper column, or my self-published efforts.  You help inspire me, and help keep me going.

Back to the writing board!

T. M. Strait