There are many negative aspects of Christmas. Yes, it is over-commercialized. It can be a season of loneliness and depression for some. Some family gatherings are treasured, but some can be gut-wrenching. There can be disappointment in what one gives and in what one gets. Expectations can be set by your family and peers that are almost impossible to meet.
Christmas gift giving, in and of itself, does not have to be one of the negative aspects. It can be a reflection of love and caring, of sharing and generosity.
There are many pitfalls in gift-giving. They can be too extravagant, hurting a family's budget, increasing personal debt and anxiety. They can be done in too tic-for-tat fashion - if I do X for Bob, then I have to do the equivalent of X for John. If Bob does X for me, then I must match dollar for dollar what I do for Bob.
The value of a gift is not measured in its material worth, but in the joy it brings others. It is a demonstration of showing "I care about you."
Gifts can be for family. They can be for friends, co-workers, fellow church parishioners. They can be for those in need, in your community and around the world.
The greatest gift of all was given to us by Jesus. He took on the mantle of humanity, showed us what giving and sacrifice was, and lighted the way to the true path. Love God, love your neighbor. A simple message that has reverberated through the last two millennia. A message of love and hope, kindness and charity, caring and sharing. A beacon of light over a sometimes dark and challenging world.
Be careful with your gift-giving. Do not be caught up in the commercialization. Don't match for matching's sake. Don't worry about all your presents being material.
But do give abundantly. Give with joy. Give to make the world a better place.
Have a blessed Advent and....
soon it will be Christmas Day!
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