Thursday, November 20, 2014

Class of '73 and the Great Political Divide

I don't remember much at the time.  I've been a highly political person, pretty much since birth, but I don't have a whole lot of political memories of my classmates, except for the student council and class president campaigns I was involved in.

There was a student poll done when I was just in fourth grade, for the 1964 election.  Lyndon Johnson won in a landslide.

There was some talk about the Vietnam War, but it was mostly about whether or not there'd still be a draft when we came of age (there was, but they weren't really drafting anybody).

If my school peers  expressed an opinion on the '68 election, I missed it.  My own loyalties shifted around, from Eugene McCarthy to Bobby Kennedy to Richard Nixon (for one or two weeks, when I was still angry about the Democratic Convention) to finally Hubert Humphrey (it took me that long to figure out Humphrey's civil rights record and support of liberal causes).

I joined a group in high school that was opposed to Richard Nixon, led by the Eckes brothers, George and Mike.  There were others in the group, but I have forgotten who they were.

The biggest hint of our divide may have come with the riots centered around Detroit in 1968.  The fear was palpable, all around us, as we many were terrified of rumors that they were coming to get us!  Rumors were everywhere.  I had no idea the attitudes were so intense.  I remember a discussion in a classroom where some very logically (at least logically to them) tried to explain why racial prejudice was justified.  I knew the situation was more complicated then they projected (police and authority good, blacks bad), but it was hard to articulate.  Reading the book Nixonland by Rick Perelstein (published in 2008) helped confirm my feelings that much of what happened was caused by over-reaction (on all sides).  It makes me fear for what may soon happen in Ferguson.

It is also important to note than we lived in an area that had one of the healthiest per capita incomes in the United States.  Income equality was about as good as it gets in a capitalist society.  This was due in large part to unions and a healthy auto industry.  Of course, all that changed in subsequent years.

My class went away (from my sight) for a very long time.  Then, thanks to Facebook and the efforts of Benita Vierke Collins, they have come back in recent years.  Many of them are people I really weren't close to, but I befriend them anyways.  Sometimes it's just nice to have people want to be your friends.

Fascinatingly, they have divided behind political lines.  Some are relatively middle of the road, but most are strong advocates for the left or the right.  I'm surprised at the group who agrees with my positions, or posts liberal stuff of their own.  I'm just as surprised at the large group that is very conservative, tinged with Tea Party madness.

It has gotten to the point with my political posts, whether stuff from The Strait Line, comments, or re-postings of different memes, that the only conservative commentary I get are from those right wingers in my class.  My local friends, of which there are many more that are conservative than liberal, have fallen virtually completely silent.  I don't know why.  I don;t know if they just got tired of arguing with me, or since they have real-life interactions with me, they see me as more than a political advocate and just choose to ignore that side of me, or if they just view that stuff like you would a toddler playing with his vegetables - you just smile and try to ignore it, hoping the child grows out of it. I do get likes and some commentary from local liberal friends (yes, we are scattered but we do exist!), but nothing much from local conservatives.  They are such a large group down here (Pierce County voted 85% for Republicans in the last election here), that they may feel like I'm just an aberration and have closed their eyes to the political side of me.

Some of the commentary I get from my school peers is quite intense and nasty.  I have been called a liberal (yes, for some it is a curse word), communist, socialist, naive, stupid, foolish, not in the 'real' world, and the worst thing - a bigot.  Some of the commentary shows libertarian influences, but most is from the authoritarian, Conservative Christian right.  Some of it is borderline racist, particularly when talking about the President they so irrationally hate.  Some of it is actually insightful, and helps me see the other side and their point of view better.

And I do think that is one of the things that is missing for me locally.  They are so sure in their opinions, so rarely challenged, that they don't even want to talk about politics.

So are my Michigan classmates messy and challenging sometimes?  Yes.  Do I want to 'unfriend' or 'block' them sometimes?  Oh, yes.  But the give and take?  The discussion from all sides?  Oh, I do appreciate that.  I really do.

Last election, despite the talk that Georgia was slowly becoming a purple state, the Republicans won everything.  And I do mean EVERYTHING.  Everything except those districts that had been gerrymandered for minorities, or to concentrate the few liberal enclaves in the state.  Michigan has been tilting more Republican statewide, but there is still diversity in the state.  The Democratic Senate candidate, Gary Peters, won election to the Senate, while astonishingly, Republican Governor Rick Snyder won re-election.  The Democratic candidate almost always wins the Presidential race.  I miss that sense of diversity.  I really do.

I do miss hearing from some of my old friends.  Evans Bentley, my best friend from high school.  Cindy Nestell, whom we very close to each other for awhile.  Randy and Barb Bloomfield, the kids next door. I suppose if I were more aggressive, I could track them down, but that is not in my nature.  Heck, I may finally get in contact with them, and find out they LOVE Rushy Limbaugh!  But I think I could handle it.

So, O class of '73 and all your noisy political discussion?  I only have two things to say to you - thank you, and keep it up!














8 comments:

  1. Interesting post. .. and thanks for caring enough to put yourself out there. ... it's sure hard at times to speak rationally, to keep ones cool in heated discussions, I am not great at that but am working on it!

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  2. I don't often talk politics when I'm in person with extremist conservatives. I have a hard time controlling myself when I do. I get louder and start to lose my ability to reason well, and my blood pressure goes off the map. I find that the blog and some (but not all) of my internet discussions give me the opportunity to calm down and respond better. Well...most of the time.

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  3. thanks Tom, I enjoyed this and had to smile a few times as I read it. I find it very odd at the hate and nastiness and sometimes just constant insults on the discussion or opinions of other who may not agree with our more liberal views. I always enjoy reading others opinions but it seems like the conservative opinions are not meant in a sharing opinion but rather in a judgmental rude way. (do I dare say that) Politics, religion; we all have our opinions but to be so one sided and insulting is not an answer either. I share most of your opinions and disagree/dislike many others that I see post. It does seem like we have a lot of the haters but keep posting!

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  4. I will! It does get discouraging sometimes, especially when the tone turns racial. But I do my best. I have been fortunate to have so many conservative friends in my life, in that it gives me a better sense of balance, and less quick to dismiss. But that does not mean that I won't speak out.

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  5. There does seem to be an under-current of hatred weaving its way through much of the BHS group postings ... there, I've said it. And I single them out here, in relation to the other "friends" on FB, and for me personally, and with the other people I just encounter daily. I recall after leaving Michigan, on my return visits, it started to starkly stand out to me, the racial attitudes. The use of the N word. But where I live now, there are not alot of blacks. Lots of Latinos, but that is different somehow. Now that the BHS group has integrated throughout my FB with my other friends, it has made me more aware of how some of those more vicious comments may come across. I am starting to be more careful what conversations I start. Some of my other friends have made comments like "who is that guy?" The mid-west and east are different in this way from the west .... it has been an interesting observation ... one that saddens my soul.
    But there is hope and it is amazing how quickly things can transform. Take my own family, for example. When my nephew married the love of his life, Mark ... everyone from my family made the trip to Maryland for the wedding. Love and family overcame. That was the end of the gay jokes in my family. With the birth of my great-nephew Braylon and that amazing smile of his ~ no more N word spoken. No more black jokes. It will take time, but through empathy, through social integration, there is hope.

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  6. My point is, its all about EMPATHY. When it hits home, there is empathy and compassion. Love overcomes. The question is, how do we infuse honest empathy into our society?

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  7. I agree with you wholeheartedly about social integration. The more we come into contact with the other, and see them as extensions of our own faimly and tribe, the better we will be.

    My own experience has been to start in the Midwest/Michigan and then move to the Deep south. That was interesting. I would say that the feeling in Michigan were more territorial and tribal - this is my territory and you shall not cross it. The South was more accepting of being near other cultures -as long as those "other" cultures knew their place.

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  8. Another great post. Lisa nailed it. EMPATHY.

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