Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Little John Defends The Blackshear Forest

My son, Benjamin Strait, dons his Little John Montoya outfit in preparation for his role in Young Robin Hood.


I don't like to do two political stories in a row.  But I feel like I have no choice.  My valiant, heroic son is being bullied for his political beliefs at his local middle school. Last week a large number of boys ganged up on him and told him that Obama was gay, that his children were adopted and the Michelle was really Michael.  They said Obama kills babies.  Benjamin was surprised when one of his closest friends started to join in the chanting and derision.

Yesterday it began again.  This time Obama was a terrorist who wanted to start a world war.  One boy told him that if Benjamin could find another person who would vote for Obama, he wouldn't kill him.  My son just tried to calmly ask where they got their information.  The kids said "Fox News".  Benjamin said that Fox News was controlled by the Republican Party.  The kids said it was a channel for both Democrats and Republicans.

This is not the only assault I've heard of.  They have occurred in both Pierce and Ware County.  If you are known to support Obama, you're going to be harassed.  My son is braver than I realized, and his courage and strength of character takes my breath away.  There are adults living in this area who support Obama and Democratic positions in general who are afraid to speak out, afraid it might her their job, their family, their standing in the community.

Pierce county will probably vote 85 to 90% for Romney in the coming election.  Those kind of super-majorities sometimes behave like those who believe the other way are pariahs.  There is a tendency in some churches here to condemn liberals from the pulpit.  You are made to feel that if you are a Democrat or progressive/liberal, that you are anti-Christian.  I'm about fed up to here with it.

Do I believe that Fox News declared Obama a terrorist?  Not EXPLICITLY,  no.    They have heavily implied that he is not a true American, that he is a socialist, that he may be foreign born, that he doesn't love this country.  But did these kids literally get what they were saying from Fox News?  I doubt it.  They got it from their parents, they got it from older children, they got it from their church and in some cases, yes, they got it from their teachers.

Should I tell the administration of the school?  I am not sure.  I can't have Benjamin known as a tattler.  That will just increase his harassment   I am a school Principal's kid myself, and I sympathize with their plight.  Parents calling to overprotect their kids can be a problem with trying to evenhandedly run a school.  On the other hand, there is still two weeks until the election.  And I know other kids are being harassed.  It's a tough call and I have not yet fully made up my mind.

I love politics.  I love political discussion, even in the schools.  But this is bullying, plain and simple.  And it needs to stop.

Our play, young Robin Hood, is about bullying as well.  About standing up for yourself against those that would intimidate you.  I am proud to be part of such an effort to contribute towards such a positive message, and I am proud of children like Benjamin, who stand up, sometimes alone, against the kind of awful bullying that goes on, whether it's about politics or physical size or being a nerd or being gay.

Let's stand up for our children.  Let's stand against the bullies.  Let's let kids like Benjamin know they are not alone.


2 comments:

  1. Tom, it is a shame that the students and parents who take a stand and speak out about moral wrongdoings are usually the ones, around here, who are seen as the "bad guys". As parents, we have to decide which battles to fight or encourage our children to fight because we know it will be used against them and us if it goes against popular belief or involves certain groups/class of people. I would rather been seen as the "B!" (which I am) and teach my children to stand up for basic principles of right & wrong than to be the ones who hide behind the crowd and use Bible verses taken out of context to try and make themselves look superior and their opinions seem Biblical (a common Facebook practice in the South!:))Speaking out on behalf of Benjamin is a hard call. The only times I've intervened for my children have been when they first have spoken to authority figures and have simply been dismissed and made to feel like they are the ones causing the trouble...the only difference being then I'm the trouble-maker. It's exhausting and frustrating because deep-down you know nothing is going to change. Currently, we are dealing with a different sort of situation that has at its roots the same underlying causes. You know I'm Blackshear-born-and-bred and see the good and bad of raising children in small-town southest GA. Tom, I don't agree with all your political opinions, but I respect you and know you will do what is best for Benjamin.

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  2. It sounds like Benjamin has a good grip on things. What does he want? How does he want to handle it? Maybe that should be the route you take. Discuss the pros and cons with him regarding which path he would rather take. My guess though, is that you have already done this! :)

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